Sharing is a very important part of our everyday lives. Sometimes we do it so carefree and naturally, that it doesn't even feel like sharing, but more of a natural response. Parent educator Tiffany Franklin reminds caregivers to begin teaching sharing to even their youngest toddlers.

"To teach an individual to let someone else use his or her belongings is undoubtedly a big task," said Franklin. "All caregivers and parents have a difficult time during this process. Especially for younger children, who just got a new toy, and have to let their little cousin, who's visiting, play. This may be very unpleasant, especially when temper tantrums fly?"

Franklin says it is critical to teach an individual to care while teaching the concept of sharing. This allows the child to limit selfish behavior.

Parents and caregivers should:

• Lay down rules. Be specific and don't allow them to assume what you are trying to say. Explain to him, he can't take another person's belongings without first asking permission.
• Try timed play. With this, you may use a whistle or bell to let him/her know their time is up. This works well when two kids want the same thing.
• Model Sharing/Caring behavior. Try sharing something you hold dear with him. This will let him know that it's alright to share things that are special.
• Teach children to negotiate. Offer attractive substitutes when they want someone else's special object. Learning to negotiate may be a very important lesson learned, that would help him for the rest of his life.

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